Oh Cassocks!“Oh Cassocks!!!!” sounds like an expletive and I certainly felt like uttering a few expletives when I tentatively looked into shopping for a new one.My current cassock and surplice I got second hand, donated from a chorister who was off to university. That was back in 1986 when I was in training, when we had a choir at St Andrews and when I was rather more sylphlike than I am these days. So before the annual service I trawled around online to see what I might find…… the choice, the cost and the measuring chart left me muttering, “Oh cassocks!!!!” under the voluminous surplice I have got no-one can see that the cassock does not fit properly anyway – I’d rather give the money to charity. A few clicks later a donation was winging its way to the https://www.oarsomefoursome.co.uk/ Oarsome Foursome who are rowing the Atlantic over Christmas to raise cash for several charities including Cornwall Blood-Bikes and Care leavers.
Dear Readers and exalted others......Some more posts will follow shortly with reflections from others on Reader Day and things going on around the Deaneries involving Readers- but in the Spirit of not giving you too much all at once......... ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++In coming days as Chaplain I am seeing two people discerning the path to Reader Ministry, Leading a C5 course near Callington, going to Sennen to do a small C3 safeguarding course so that a Reader can take up his PTO license once more, seeing a student on the Reader Training Course about their reflective journal and hosting coffee and conversation with the Chaplain tomorrow morning (Monday 14th) at the Penventon Hotel in Redruth between 10 and noon for any Readers or supportive others to come and join our in depth discussions! +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++The Reader's Service seemed to go well this year but I am always aware that we can improve things. So in the spirit of the old primary school teacher in me I wonder if you would do a little evaluation of you went this year. I would suggest two stars and a wish - in other words mention a couple of things you thought were really good and something that might have made it better. Do several trios of comments if you like! :) Chris Kingshott who was chaplain before me and now plying his Reader Ministry and the Penlee cluster has written a novel!! It is not yet published anywhere so if you would like to read it- it is going to be serialrised here! Click for Chapter One! And about the author. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++The Quiet Day This year on Saturday December 7th, the quiet day has been proving both a popular and necessary Advent experience! Please see the article for booking details. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++Funeral Thoughts - There's a page for responses to this HERE!In response to my post about my first Funeral Service, Reader Wendy Earl had a few thoughts that might begin a discussion, she writes, With regard to your visit to the crem you will now know the huge amounts of energy needed. Personally being very ‘green’ I keep asking for some Woodland burial sites in Cornwall. I understand Penmount are now offering ‘green’ but up country there are some beautiful, rural sites and barns converted to chapels as well as offering facilities for wakes…(good diversification for farmers!) and shouldn’t tree planting be top of all our agendas?! It would be good to get folk talking about this.
Saturday 7th December 10-4 Epiphany House I am delighted that Reader Garth Wright will be leading the day this year and that places are already being booked. This day is getting more and more popular! Garth's experience with the Third Order of the Society of St Francis together with his contemplative persona will, I am quite sure, both refresh and challenge us. If you would like to take advantage and step out of the busy time of Advent and the pre-Christmas rush please book by email. Places are strictly limited so that there is space to think and reflect.We book an extra couple of rooms in case someone needs to see me as Chaplain or to speak to the leader of the day.We suggest a donation of about £10 towards the costs of using Epiphany House and although there will be refreshments provided on arrival and at lunchtime, participants are asked to bring their own packed lunches.If there is enough interest I could investigate whether Epiphany could provide a soup lunch and what the cost would be. Please let me know if that would be helpful.
A Sermon for the Reader Licensing Service October 2019 Let us prayIn the written word and spoken word may we meet the risen word, our lord and saviour Jesus Christ – Amen.The challenge of preaching at this particular occasion is not much different to the challenge all us preachers face every time we stand before God’s people……… it’s just got a couple of extras! to give a sermon one needs to hear one’s self,a sermon that welcomes and encourages those about to join our merry band of blue-scarved warriors for Christ,a sermon that should speak to all those in ministry both ordained and layand finally a sermon that will say something to everyone else because after all every single person in this building right now whether they are wearing frocks, playing the organ, shuffling their bottoms on impossibly uncomfortable chairs or tasked with making everything work smoothly for the rest of us (pause) each is equally important, equally loved and equally valued by God (Pause) and that does not matter whether you are here as a born again atheist basking in the architecture - or a bishop.Now THEY (the about to be licensed readers) are probably expecting a story- but I don’t have one today; they are the story and for the purposes of this sermon they represent all of us in ministry who are here today…I stand here in my role as chaplain having worked with - and prayed with - and prayed for this group over the last several years as I did with the several groups before that. Each year that Jane, (indicate) as director of training, and I have been here - we have been immensely proud that the future of reader ministry has an injection of such talent, dedication, scholarship, compassion and, above all, love. So as one does (pause) I was pondering on what it is that makes the perfect Reader.What would you put in the recipe? (Pause) articulate, well read and prepared to make promises to the Bishop (indicate J) but what else?(pause)You see this group here (pause); representing all of us remember– each with our own God given gifts, personalities and vocations …… between them I wonder if they make the recipe for the perfect reader.Let me introduce them...Martin the constantly inquisitive and searching, orthodox- rigorous academic music professor.Henry the surgeon whose wit and ability to get to the heart of the matter are as sharp as the scalpel he used to wield.Robin whose practical approach and generosity of time are reflected his sermons which are seemingly hewn from the bench ends which he carves into useful artefacts.Liz from Warleggan who strides the ecumenical divide and understands the real needs of the folk she serves,Debbie the teacher, who is so thoughtful, and more creative than almost anyone in preparing worshipJames the traditionalist who is as happy leading BCP evensong as he is tying a tarpaulin to a church roof in a gale or conjuring life from a recalcitrant computer.Kim who’s cheerfully up for any…
Dear Bishop Chris I know you are not officially a Bishop any more in your new role but for me the title is something I think you may be stuck with. When someone moves on to other things it is interesting to reflect on the impact they have made and the shape of the hole that they have left. With some folks the hole is not much than a dent and with others it's not so much a hole as a pile of debris that has to be cleared away. Thankfully neither of those applies to you. The impact of your ministry on me personally has been huge and through that I am aware of some of the impact across the diocese.Although I had been getting increasingly involved in Reader life since I retired from my paid job in 2009 spending some time as Deanery Reader Steward and somehow getting the job of producing a three fold brochure on Reader ministry there was none so surprised as I at getting an email from you inviting me to be on the panel to select Readers for training in 2014. The conversations that day with you and Jane (Kneebone) as well as the amazing privilege of listening to the faith stories of the candidates set me on a whole new path. From preaching and teaching and organising stuff my ministry became more and more about listening which if you were to speak to my wife Lez she would tell you that me actually listening is a miracle. I am not sure that it would count toward your beatification however :) So as a result of that I was asked to help on the course and became chaplain to the course later that year. Then eventually I took over from Chris Kingshott as Chaplain to Readers. So part of your impact is in that wonderful ability to discern the skills of others and to open the opportunities to flourish both for me and for many others over your years as Bishop of St Germans. The wider impact being the empowering of others and delegating responsibility which enables the holes one leaves to be filled much more easily. Hence the role of Warden sitting with a small committee until a new one is formally appointed. Another aspect of your ministry that impacted upon me in particular and I suspect in many others was your ability to ask the probing question that would set one's mind on a different tack or to cut to the core of an issue. Asking the right questions is such an important skill. That some folks may not have altogether enjoyed that challenge is the hard stuff of being a leader but challenge is what we all need if we are to grow. Your support for and belief in Reader Ministry really did make us feel valued and that we have a special part to play in the modern church even with the pincer movement of other lay ministries and the seeming dominance of some ordained ministers! (not…
Just some memes to brighten your day It seems all denominations share some of the same problems The next one is a hangover from the ethos of my teaching days but so relevant in faith matters! Just don't expect the answer you want every time. Just nice..... Funeral Ministry I finally took my first funeral this week having avoided them for the three decades of my Reader Ministry. That was partly because I saw my skills being with children and young people and partly through being uncomfortable, to put it mildly, with thinking too much about death and dying. The other reason is something to do with getting it wrong in such a delicate situation. The same minister led the funerals for my mother and my father some five years apart. At Dad's funeral he got my brother's name wrong which did not amuse him so at Mum's funeral I prepared the whole service and gave him a eulogy to read with the instruction that the majority of mourners were Christians of different denominations so a bit of hopeful theology would not go amiss. He did not put in any Christian hope and in the Eulogy he attempted to paraphrase..... Where I had written 'Doreen loved birds and was a keen naturalist........" he decided in a lilting midlands accent to declare that 'Doreen was a keen naturist.....' Oh dear! Since retiring in 2009 I have spent hours listening to people in case-work, chaplaincy and spiritual direction situations and listening to others has a tendency to change one's perspective. So the time came when the Rector needed another pair of hands to cover funerals and not being one to pass up a challenge I accepted. I have done funeral training at least three times with the Readers in Training and another three at different times over the years, just not the practical aspects so after quizzing the Rector and having a good conversation with Richard Putt, the hugely experienced Funeral Director at Bernard Williams Funerals I was all set. Part of the preparation was in an empty crematorium in Camborne with Rector Caspar, escorting a coffin in from the hearse (the committal having been done outside the church much earlier) and saying an appropriate prayer. Once done, that gave me the opportunity to chat to the crematorium manager, stand at the lectern, rehearse pressing the button to shut the curtains and work out the best speed to walk in in front of the coffin! Then I was taken around the back to the 'business end' and chatted to the chap whose task it was to run the cremator and other equipment. It was fascinating and rather wonderful in its own way. Even seeing the bin of metal replacement body parts from hips to knees and from staples to pins which goes off to Poland or Holland for recycling and generated around £6000 which is then donated to local charities. Speaking to the sons of the lady whose service I was to take was a special experience as was writing all their…
Resourcing Sunday to Saturday FaithClick on the link above (or the picture of the booklet) to open this document which I would highly recommend! Many of you will have seen it in your latest copy or the Reader. I missed it! My habit is to open the recyclable sleeve putting it with the compost, remove the magazine to read later and extract all all the advertising that drops out like confetti and putting that in the paper recycling. A sad end to this carefully written and hugely accessible booklet!Luckily Bishop Chris thrust it into my hand and there will be some extra copies available on the Reader stand on Vocations Day thanks to Carrie.You might care to go and mine for your own resources in the vast caverns of the CRC website- there are some treasures there even if they are called unhelpful things like P348! https://www.readers.cofe.anglican.org/resources.php
So 50 years ago this summer I was 17 and living at home in Birmingham. My parents had gone off with my brother and my cousin for a caravanning holiday in Scotland and I was working nights in Cadburys to build up the college fund.It was 1969 and I maintain, the best year for popular and rock music ever; the Stones were top of the charts with Honky Tonk women, the Beatles with Get Back and Fleetwood Mac with Albatross. Of course there were some dreadful musical memories too such as Sugar Sugar by the Archies, the somewhat pornographic Je T’Aime Moi Non Plus and arguably ‘My Way’ by Frank Sinatra which seems to have become a song of choice for many funerals! There’s nothing new under the sun.So the other week I was preaching at St Andrews in Redruth on that wonderful set of readings that included the lines from Ecclesiastes about there being nothing new under the sun and musing that in 1969 Richard Nixon was president and now there was Donald Trump. Woodstock set the standard for large music festivals and now they are common-place. Neil Armstrong made ‘one small step for man’ and now we have a space station orbiting the planet and entrepreneurs are working on taking folks on holiday in space. Charles de Gaulle resigned as French president famous for saying “NON!” a couple of years before to the UK entering the Common Market following years of negotiation and now…… well the less said about that here the better! There’s nothing new under the sun. That summer I joined a sponsored March from Central Birmingham to the Lickey Hills in aid of Medical Aid for Vietnam and these days teenagers and others are still Marching for Climate Change and so on! There’s nothing new under the sun.History seems to prove than humankind does not learn from its mistakes and maybe it has to be allowed to make them in order to learn and that goes also for Rectors, Curates, Readers and anyone involved in ministry! No amount of PCC meetings that declare “we did that once…. It didn’t work!” or “we don’t belong to do that here!” will help. David Bowie was the soundtrack to the Moon Landing encouraging us all to look up and the Edwin Hawkins singers sang Oh Happy Day when Jesus washed my sins away reminding us that there is always a chance to start afresh- putting off that those bad habits and learning from mistakes of the past. Blue Mink Sang “Melting Pot” in which they appealed for all races to be lumped together to produce a “get along scene” and on that Sunday at St Andrews the epistle was from Paul explaining that in Christ there was no Greek no Jew, so slave nor free, make nor female etc. There’s nothing new under the sun. (Final paragraph)Maybe we should focus on the Hollies, “He Aint Heavy, he’s my Brother” I suggested in my sermon and remember that at…
A Hot & Contentious Topic...... Carrie raised an interesting question:"Our parish has recently done Safer Recruitment training with everyone or it feels like everyone – and (it has) not necessarily (been universally) welcomed. The Parish tried to ‘Safer Recruit’ me as a Reader and I found out they couldn’t – it is the Diocese who does Safer Recruitment for Readers and I didn’t know this before. How many Readers realise this do you think? Do you think it's worth a ‘did you know’ thought in the Blog?"It is of course very important to safely recruit but as with all these things it raises a huge number of issues especially when you have a small congregation and an even smaller number of volunteers. Readers in training, those coming up for relicensing and those needing permission to officiate do go through a sort of safer recruitment process as they should all have the backing of their incumbents and their PCCs. Trainees will also have been through an extensive interview process and had to provide references. Then they are carefully assessed for suitability over a three year period so they are certainly safely recruited. What about Readers who move in to the Diocese or move from another parish, what about Readers who have been in post for several decades- how is their suitability for role checked? One would hope that regular meetings with their incumbent / ministry team and an annual / bi-annual review would help. So although it is diocesan responsibility in that the 'buck stops there' it is also Parish responsibility to make sure that Readers along with everyone else are working safely. I suspect there might be a few comments here..... Some Sample Role descriptions from Guildford Diocese Church Of England Safeguarding Policy.pdf
Working Agreement - sample 1Working Agreement samples 2 Work AgreementReaderWorkingAgreement (Link to a word document Norwich Diocese) Working agreements are a really useful tool for Readers and their Incumbents. They really provide for a good focus for ministerial review as well as being a useful (and necessary document) in seeking approval for PTO o relicensing from the Incumbent and PCC. The links at the top of this article may be useful. The first two Carrie provided and the third is a form I downloaded from the Diocese of Norwich. It is very detailed (possibly overly so) but can be edited to suit your needs in your situation.
It is all change for training this year and it would be great to keep those who are in training in your prayers.New this year are Jason, Judy, Gaynor and Sue. Already in training are Penny, Sandy, Debbie & Debbie and Jane, and in their final year, Roy and Matt who are due to be licensed in October 2020. Eight new readers are due to be licensed in October, Henry, Robin, James, Martin, Debbie, Liz, Lesley and Kim. Please do pray for them. ChaplaincyBefore I was Chaplain to Readers I was Chaplain to Readers in Training and it remains as part of my role although I am delighted that Reader, Margaret Sylvester-Thorne has come on board as assistant Chaplain and will be the presence at most of the weekend courses at MARJON. I will attend when I can. Click here to view the SWMT|C website Reader Training Page Following their two year SWMTC course there will be a post licensing year with day school elements and other tasks. This year two students will have a final year on their own so they have had a study programme developed for them which may provide opportunities for other readers to take part in the day schools by way of continuing ministerial development.A suggested programme is as follows:· Two study days e.g: 1. Funeral Training (inc visit to local crematorium) 2. Focus on a Biblical book or topicThese might be opened up to all Readers, especially those licensed in the last two to three years.· Year 3 Placement (6 weeks, chaplaincy, other denomination etc)· Lead a 4 – 6 week group study course: Bible study/Lent/Advent/Baptism or Confirmation Preparation etc· One assessed act of worship· One assessed sermon· Two pieces of summative work:1. An extended Theological Reflection on an aspect of work being undertaken in the parish/workplace/wider diocesan context2. Placement portfolio including reflection on experience (Total c 5000 words)· To meet at least once a term with a personal tutor or supervisor / as a supervision group with a supervisor