This section shamelessly pinched from the Epiphany House Website  – a wonderful resource for meetings, retreats and quiet days!  

This is an ancient ministry which is about taking time to meet with an experienced person to talk about one’s spiritual journey and prayer. Aelred of Rievaulx, a twelfth century English Cistercian monk, defines this role beautifully: ‘what happiness, what security, what joy to have someone to whom you dare speak on terms of equality as to another self; one to whom you can unblushingly make known what progress you have made in the spiritual life; one to whom you can entrust all the secrets of your heart and before whom you can place all your plans.’

People seek this ministry at different times in their lives and for various reasons. It can be a way:

  • to make better sense of one’s faith journey,
  • to find clarity and support at times of significant life choices,
  • to respond more deeply to God’s presence, perhaps by exploring new ways of prayer and meditation,
  • to discover together the cause of problems or blockages in one’s spiritual life,
  • to work through a particular spiritual issue.

Spiritual Direction or Accompaniment provides a ‘sacred space’ into which we can bring anything or nothing, in which we will be listened to without judgement or agenda, in which we are totally accepted, in which all that is said is entirely confidential.

The relationship is different in each case, as we are all different and have different needs. You can discuss your deepest thoughts and fears, about anything, aware the conversation is safe between you, God and your companion.

There are links to further information about Spiritual Direction, including some advice when finding a spiritual director, on the website of the Association for Promoting Retreats (link opens in a new page).

You may wish to incorporate a session of spiritual direction if you are visiting the house on a personal retreat. Some of our spiritual directors are also available for longer-term, regular spiritual direction. Please contact us for more details:

Find a Spiritual Director with Spirituality Network Cornwall

Epiphany House has links with a local network of spiritual directors in Cornwall. If you are looking to receive spiritual direction or seeking information about training as a spiritual director, please contact Hilary Spong: Tel. 01726 883315; Email:

2019-05 Enneagram study day (1)

2019-10 Enneagram intro

Details of two Enneagram events which are part of the Epiphany House programme this year.  The first, on Friday 10th May (10 a.m. to 4 p.m.), is for those who have done the basic Enneagram course ( the course I did with many of you) and looks at how the Enneagram can help us understand the Spiritual Journey.

 The later course on Friday evening 25th October (7.30 p.m. to 9.30 p.m.) and Saturday 26th October (10 a.m. to 5 p.m.) is the basic introductory course on the Enneagram.  This may be of interest to any who didn’t do it last time, anyone who would like a refresher, and of course anyone else who might be interested.

As both these events are part of the Epiphany House programme booking and payment needs to be made through Epiphany House