When Something's Lost and Something's Gained...

So that’s it for 2020, a year in which I learned all about ZOOM, publishing on YouTube and the delights of walking, and praying, in the light of the  dawn.  The year in which I realised how important hugs are and how much they would be missed. And, a year when morning prayer at 9 on ZOOM would unite elements of congregations from not only  the five Redruth Churches but from across the diocese as we were joined by numerous Readers. 

Relationships have taken a hot this year where meeting online has not been appropriate and as T.S.Eliot said, “We die to each other daily. What we know of other people is only our memory of the moments during which we knew them. And they have changed since then. To pretend that they and we are the same is a useful and convenient social convention which must sometimes be broken.”

When we have all had our vaccinations and we kick-start the activities we have put on hold things will be different and my hope is that we can rebuild the relationships and do the activities better, shedding those that we have found we have not really missed! 

 

‘The Lord is with you . . . do not be afraid’.

A Meditation on the Annunciation, Luke 1:26–38

 Bob Owens

 Luke’s account of the Annunciation is one of the most frequently illustrated stories in the Bible. We’ve all seen pictures of the angel Gabriel, with his great wings, announcing to Mary that she has been chosen to give birth to Jesus. I’d like to take just a few moments to meditate on how Luke describes the scene to us – to try to enter into the story imaginatively, and to ask what it might have to offer us in our own lives as Christians.

        The story opens with God sending Gabriel to a specific place, and to a specific person. The place is Nazareth, a small town in Galilee. What’s special about Nazareth? Nothing at all. It is not a great city like Jerusalem, where all the rich and powerful people live, with a Temple and other important buildings. And what’s special about Mary? Nothing at all. She’s a young peasant girl, still a virgin though she is engaged to be married to a local carpenter. Mary is just an ordinary person – not someone living in high society. And yet – God chooses her to be the vessel through which his son Jesus Christ will enter the world. Isn’t that a thought worth pondering?

        What does Gabriel say to Mary? He greets her warmly, telling her she is ‘favoured’ and that ‘The Lord is with you’. This is far from the kind of greeting Mary would have expected, and it startles her. She wonders what it could possibly mean, but says nothing. Perhaps a look of fear crossed her face, because Gabriel tells her not to be afraid: she has indeed found favour with God. She is going to give birth to a son and is to call him Jesus. He describes this child in amazing terms: he is to be God’s own son; he will be given the throne of his ancestor David; and he will reign over Israel for ever. What Gabriel is telling Mary is that she will give birth to the long-awaited Messiah, a figure she would have heard about from readings of the prophets in the synagogue.

        Mary’s initial reaction is a completely down-to-earth one. ‘It is impossible for me to have a child. I’ve never slept with a man – I’m a virgin!’ Her consternation is easy to imagine. Can this angel really be serious? Mary is no shy, demure little bride-to-be. She knows a thing or two – including that you have to have sexual intercourse to get pregnant. Gabriel patiently explains to her how this will all happen. The Holy Spirit will conceive the baby in Mary’s womb by the power of God himself, so that the son she will bear will indeed be the Son of God. God can make this happen – even Mary’s cousin Elizabeth has become pregnant in her old age. Nothing is impossible with God.

        How, finally, does Mary respond to this announcement by Gabriel? She submits completely to God’s calling. ‘Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.’ Mary hears the word of God; she believes it; and she says ‘yes’ to God’s love and his purpose for her. Perhaps there are times when we feel ourselves called by God to do something that we think must be impossible. When we have our doubts and uncertainties about how to respond, we might remember those words spoken to Mary: ‘The Lord is with you . . . do not be afraid’.

Amen

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This is a picture of the chapel in Iona- I still hope to get there one day but plans to travel have been demolished for various reasons over the last few years – maybe 2022!!

One of the strangest things in 2020 has been my lack of contact with schools  and indeed children! I started at school in 1956 and have been in an educational environment up until March this year. The last decade has been mostly in school governance and story telling in nursery but I was in school several times  week. Consequently my thoughts are with teachers and especially head teachers who are under enormous stress.

The meme above seems to sum it up for me. If you have ever worked in a primary school you do not underestimate the value of a wet paper towel in healing. However- I am praying for some divine help here! 

 

Dear all

this is the last blog tis side of Christmas- next week I shall be deep in  ZOOMland particularly on Christmas Eve with the ZOOM service with the children which is even more daunting on ZOOM than it is in Church in normal days when the place is heaving with people. So on Zoom I am hoping :

  • we will get some people there
  • There will be a few soloists or family singers
  • that I can arrange the quiz / story activity in a way that works! 
  • that we don’t get uninvited visitors with disruptive intentions… 
  • and…… that somehow we will provide something for the Holy spirit to touch the lives of those who attend.

Prayers please! 

Following that at 8pm and at 11:30 I am button pushing for the two live ZOOM services from church…. although I will be at home. 

Christmas Day…… hopefully meeting the grandchildren on the beach….. even if it’s raining and I am taking a break from ZOOM! 

Have a wonderful Christmas!

I am grateful to the people who occasionally pas comment on the emails and blog content. I do wonder sometimes if anybody is reading it, whether it is helpful or whether it is just a nuisance. 

So when someone contacts me about something else and say.. oh by the way I did like the bit you wrote about x….. it is always encouraging. 

This Christmas there are some Readers having a really tough time with health, or as a carer or because they are alone. Please do keep them in your prayers too. 

With every blessing

Jim

Chaplain to the Readers in training- Vacancy!

 

I have been very grateful to Reader Margaret Sylvester-Thorne over the past two years  for easing my chaplaincy role by taking on the Readers in Training. Margaret has now decided that it is time to pass the baton  and so we have a vacancy! It is never easy finding people to fulfil these roles and we do want a Reader from this side of the border taking it on so I have prepared a job advert.

We have a vacancy for Chaplain to the Readers in Training and would like Readers to consider whether they might be called to this ministry.

 The Chaplain would be expected to attend the seven residential weekends in Plymouth each year, normally Friday 4 pm to Saturday 5pm.

  • Be alongside students in lectures
  • Be available to talk to students about issues raised in lectures that might impact on their faith
  • Support students in prayer through their training.
  • Attendance at some staff meetings.

 The chaplain might also be involved in some of the formation evenings at the Old Cathedral School in Truro or online. They might also want to be involved in the Post Licensing Training year too.

There is of course no pay for any Reader Chaplaincy work but expenses may be claimed where needed.

 Please do consider whether you are called to this fulfilling and important role and if interested speak to me or Jane Kneebone (Director of Training)

Many thanks – Jim.

The Blessing of Funeral Ministry

Sunday 13th- the 3rd Sunday in Advent.

The Blessing of Funeral Ministry

May Readers find taking Funerals a key part of their Ministry which I discovered for myself relatively late in my ministry. I did a cluster of them around last Christmastime culminating in preaching at Reader Leslie Boyden’s funeral which was a huge privilege. The Covid  struck!  

This week I did the first funeral for nine months . It was at Treswithian Downs Crematorium  in Camborne which has a super atmosphere and the views around  help to relieve the corvid-claustrophobia that social distancing has now ingrained in our psyche.  So spacious, lots of sanitizer and I felt secure in what I was doing.

The funeral was for a lady who had driven Coaches for National Express, loved wrestling and sixties music so it was no surprise that they chose a wrestling theme to enter the crem and Tina Turner singing “only the Best!” to go out.  A more interesting request was playing the saxophone bit from Gerry Rafferty’s ‘Baker Street’ for closing the curtains.  I dutifully sat down one evening and made a file of the solo so we had 38 seconds rather than 6 minutes. It actually worked well in the circumstances and we did not miss out by not having a hymn.  When I had asked about a reading I was told that they were not very religious so I asked, “What about the lyrics from the Byrds’ song, ‘Turn Turn Turn?’” They knew that, the lady being buried liked her sixties music, … so Ecclesiastes it was!

After the committal when Tina Turner boomed out, I strode respectfully outside and waited beneath the canopy for the family and friends who were all very appreciative and complimentary.

I managed to keep the social distancing in the main until I could not escape the final handshake. I detoured on the way to the carpark past the hand sanitizer and was still rubbing my hands together when I began the ascent of the shallow steps to the carpark.  I was still rubbing them when my foot caught in the hem of my Cassock and I tripped forward sprawling across the steps  in a flurry of blue scarf, voluminous white surplice and flying funeral folder.

I looked up to see the funeral party no longer sobbing but trying not to let their giggles show and attempting instead to be concerned. It must have looked  very funny. Thankfully not even my pride was injured – if I can lighten people’s day with physical humour then I have done my bit.

Meanwhile, stuck in my mind it the thought of the lady we were there for striding through the pearly gates in a wrestling cape to the ‘Invasion’ Theme tune.     My she rest in peace – and rise in Glory.

Every year at St Andrew’s Redruth Mary & Joseph set out during advent for their journey to Bethlehem via lots of houses where they stay overnight for prayer. It is based on the Mexican tradition of Posada.

This year we have had to do it differently fearing that transferring a box of figures, candles and prayer cards from house to house would not be sensible in Covid tide we made 25 sets of small figures and my wife Lez painstakingly put together a prayer card and thoughts for each day. The quotations and prayers for each day are under the next article.

Pastoral Telephony - in praise of the telephonists!

Some people are brilliant at telephoning! Lez phones some of the ladies in the ST Andrews ‘Crafty People’ group when they would normally be meeting for their weekly social crafting in non corvid times – especially if she knows hey are on their own. Many of our Readers have almost swapped their preaching, teaching and open the book ministries for a life on the telephone and I do admire and give thanks for them. 

 

I hate making telephone calls. I really hate making telephone calls. I don’t mind receiving them…. but I am so far out of my comfort zone just picking up the phone to have a chat that it makes me put it off by tying to find other things to do. I can stand up and talk to hundreds without problem, make YouTube videos, tell stories but phoning gives me the heebie-jeebies! 

So don’t think that your ministry, whether you are a reader or ‘just’ a member of the congregation making calls to check up on folks is a little thing! It is not! It’s a gift and you are called to do it. You telephonists are wonderful! 

St Andrew’s Posada 2020

Thank you for taking part in the Posada this year. You should have received 2 Nativity characters (Mary and Joseph), a candle, a daily prayer sheet and a list of names. Below are the instructions of what to do.

 Each day:-

  • Set aside some time to spend with Mary and Joseph
  • Light a candle
  • Reflect on and pray for the topic of the day
  • Pray for an individual/a family from the list of names (there are 26 so you will be able to pray for everyone on the list by the end of the Posada)

Sunday 29th December

“A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step” (Lao Tzu)

Reflect on and pray for those walking into the unknown, those setting out on difficult journeys, your own Advent journey.

 

Monday 30th December

“The angel comes, his tidings ring on the air like bells…..and when he goes, he leaves a feather in your belly” (Steven Waling)

Reflect on and pray for pregnant women, those with a new baby, those who have suffered the loss of a child.

 

Tuesday 1st December

“All happy families resemble one another. Each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way” (Leo Tolstoy)

Reflect on and pray for single parents, families who are in turmoil, children living in violent homes.

 

Wednesday 2nd December

“The wind blows over the lonely of heart and the lonely of heart is withered away” (W.B.Yeats)

Reflect on and pray for those who are lonely and isolated, those who are friendless, those separated from loved ones.

 Thursday 3rd December

“What will survive of us is love” (Philip Larkin)

Reflect on and pray for those who have never been loved, those who feel they are unloveable, those who find it hard to show love.

 

Friday 4th December

“No passion so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting and reasoning as fear” (Edmund Burke)

Reflect on and pray for those who are fearful of life, those who are crippled by anxiety, those who see only darkness and shadows even on the brightest day.

 

Saturday 5th December

“My days are swifter than a weaver’s shuttle, and are spent without hope” (Job 7 v6)

Reflect on and pray for youngsters who have no hope in the future, those who do not know what it is to hope, those who have given up hope completely.

 

Sunday 6th December

“We walk by faith, not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5 v7)

Reflect on and pray for searchers after the truth, people who have doubts about their faith, people who have no faith at all.

Monday 7th December

“Every form of addiction is bad, no matter whether the narcotic be alcohol or morphine or idealism”(C G Jung)

Reflect on and pray for those struggling to overcome issues of alcohol abuse, those locked into drug addiction, those whose gambling habits have become reckless and out of control.

 

Tuesday 8th December

“He has sent me to bind up the broken hearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives, and release for the prisoners” (Isaiah 61 v1)

Reflect on and pray for prisoners who have experienced a miscarriage of justice, prisoners serving life sentences, prisoners of conscience.

 

Wednesday 9th December

“Even the sparrow finds a nest where he can settle down” (Scottish Psalter)

Reflect on and pray for people sleeping on the streets, people with nowhere to go, people in danger of losing their home because of the current crisis.

 

Thursday 10th December

“Whenever you save 5 shillings you put a man out of work for a day” (The Observer, 31st May 1953)

Reflect on and pray for those worried about losing their job, those who cannot find work, those who are having to make others redundant.

 

Friday 11th December

“Bring me flesh and bring me wine, bring me pine logs hither. Thou and I shalt see him dine when we bring them thither” (John Neale)

Reflect on and pray for parents who go hungry so their children can eat, children who know what it is to have an empty tummy day after day, users of our local Foodbanks.

 

Saturday 12th December

“By oppression and judgement he was taken away” (Isaiah 53 v8)

Reflect on and pray for those suffering oppression, those who live under the tyranny of a dictatorship, those without freedom of speech.

 

Sunday 13th December

“Other refuge have I none, hangs my helpless soul on thee” (Charles Wesley)

Reflect on and pray for refugees escaping from war zones, people risking lives on perilous boat journeys, asylum seekers starting life in a strange country.

 

Monday 14th December

“Slavery they can have anywhere. It is a weed that grows in every soil” (Edmund Burke)

Reflect on and pray for those experiencing modern day slavery, young girls sold as sex workers, children working in sweat shops across the world.

 

Tuesday 15th December

“Give to every human being every right that you claim for yourself” (Robert Green Ingersoll)

Reflect on and pray for policy and law makers, those who work in the field of Human Rights, those who are trying to make a difference.

 

Wednesday 16th December

“I must create a system or be enslaved by another man’s. I will not reason and compare, my business is to create” (William Blake)

Reflect on and pray for those who initiate change, those who challenge the accepted view, those who make things happen against the odds.

 

Thursday 17th December

“Your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions” (Joel 2 v28)

Reflect on and pray for people who look at the wider picture, people who think outside of the box, people who are visionary in their approach to issues.

 

Friday 18th December

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more you are a leader” (John Quincy Adams)

Reflect on and pray for people who inspire others to take a new path in life, people who inspire others to be courageous in their choices, people who inspire others to reach beyond their usual comfort zone.

 

Saturday 19th December

“Encouragement is free, and beyond measure in value” (William DeFoore)

Reflect on and pray for those who help to bring out others’ potential, those who offer words of encouragement at the right time, someone who has encouraged you.

 

Sunday 20th December

“The sun of righteousness will rise with healing in his wings” (Malachi 4 v2)

Reflect on and pray for counsellors and mediators, NHS workers, those who hold the hands of the dying.

 

Monday 21st December

“Here a little child I stand” (Robert Herrick)

Reflect on and pray for children in care, children who will not know the joy and excitement of Christmas, the child inside you.

 

Tuesday 22nd December

“In the end is my beginning” (T S Eliot)

Reflect on and pray for those who are contemplating new beginnings, those who are having to start again, those whose journeys are nearing the end.

 

Wednesday 23rd December

“Whoe’er  has travelled life’s dull road, where’er his stages may have been, may sigh to think he still has found the warmest welcome at an inn” (William Shenstone)

Reflect on and pray for those who have the gift of hospitality, those who welcome the stranger, those whose arms are always open.

 

Thursday 24th December

“The peace of the Son of Peace to you” (The Celtic Blessing)

Reflect on and pray for the peacemakers, peace across the world, peace in the hearts of those you know and love.

 

Nativity Gift List

Dear God, please give me:

 

The unquestioning faith of Mary

The tolerance of Joseph

The patience of the donkey

The kindness of the innkeeper

The reverence of the oxen

The joy of the angels

The obedience of the shepherds

The perseverance of the wise men

The Christ-child in my heart today